I’ve been pondering this post for a few months now, actually. Noticing the differences between what I am now and what I used to be. It’s kind of strange, actually. You wouldn’t think that there’s such a huge dichotomy between the two, since both are phone sex at the core, but there is. Not so much how I am-although my schedule and availability has certainly changed and gotten less spontaneous! More in how people react to/treat me. Now, I’m not saying I’d trade it! I *love* my new web girl status, and while I do miss Niteflirt sometimes, I’d never go back except for a brief visit. *Smiles* I just notice the differences, that’s all.

For example. When new guys find me now, they do so only from the web. My websites, my Twitter, my link exchanges. And as I’ve said before, I like this a LOT better, because it means that and guy thinking of calling me has actually read about me. As opposed to just hearing my sexy lil voice on an 800 number. *Laughs* I like to be pretty much an open book when it comes to my sites, and my Tweets, because what I do is the girlfirend experience. When you read about me, when you call me, you get the REAL me-not some made up persona. (Like Judge Judy always says, “If you tell the truth, you don’t have to have a good memory!” Lol…) So I share what I share because I honestly like doing it. I like for you to know me, because the reason why I do what I do is because I truly enjoy getting to know you.

But what I put out there is just that: What I choose to put out there. Now that I’m a bona fide web girl *winks*, with all of the above that comes along with it, I feel like people expect to know everything about me. They want to know details about things I’ve (purposefully) only hinted at. They want to ask me probing, personal questions-sometimes even before we’ve had the chance to speak! And I don’t know. I guess I find this…odd. It’s something that never happened on Niteflirt, in any event! Lol… What was on my blogs and my Niteflirt listings was IT! Other than the occasional question about a fetish or a roleplay, anything anyone wanted to ask was always asked during an actual call.

It’s not that I’m trying to say that I mind questions! Or emails, or @KylieCallMe’s on Twitter, lol… More that I feel like I put about 80% of myself out there, publicly, for the world to see! For my “inner circle” of regular callers, it’s more like 95%. FYI, My kind of openness is NOT the norm for phone sex girls! Still, I do it because that’s just who I am. The part that I mind, is feeling like it’s not okay for me to keep that last 20 (or 5, as the case may be) percent of myself, to myself. Wait, rephrase: Not that it’s not okay, more that MORE is wanted and expected.

So, my simple request: Try to remember that I’m a real person with a real life! I know it’s probably hard to believe, but if you knew me well, you’d know that I’m actually a pretty private person. I love sharing much of myself with you! But I also treasure and jealously guard the remainder for myself. And keeping it that way is pretty essential for me to keep enjoying what I do. And staying around for you to keep enjoying me. K? K.

I never write posts like this, I feel so cuntish right now! Lol… Just know that if you think this post applies to you, it probably doesn’t. Just had to get it off my (sizable, sexy) chest.

I spent the last two days pretty sick and in bed, so I missed a couple of parties, a couple of phone calls, and countless web chores that I’m still catching up on! So I’m going to end this here. My week is pretty packed with appointments so far, but I do still have availability for this coming Friday and possibly Sunday! So email me using the contact form if you’d like to set something up. (If I didn’t scare you off, that is! Lol…) It’s off to bed with me. Promise I’ll write again soon.

Yes, I’m finally getting around to writing this post! And what a fun title, no? Although, I’m actually only looking for a couple of good men, but still! I mentioned a while back that I’m in the market for a couple of new phone boyfriends, and I am! I feel like it seems weird to devote a whole post to this, because I figure that every phone sex site, with every single blog post, is making an effort to get guys to call. (And hence, finding new “good men”.) But in case you hadn’t already noticed, I’m not like every other phone sex girl! Nor is my new site your traditional phone sex site. *Smiles* Since I went independent, I stopped making myself available for just anyone and started devoting most of my time and attention to only a select few. I’m elusive, exclusive, and some people may consider me expensive… I love that alliteration, I should totally make that a new tagline on my site! Lol… But I digress.

My point, is that for the last several months, I’ve been taking calls from pretty much the same small circle of 3 to 6 guys. Which, if you’ve stumbled upon this site and haven’t seen me available or been able to play with me yet, you probably know all too well by now. And for the most part, I like it that way! I’m always busy, my calls are scheduled days or weeks in advance, and I always enjoy my calls and my callers because we know eacother so well. I explain all that to make it clear that just because I’m accepting some new playmates, my schedule is on my terms, and there are…requirements…so to speak…if you want to play with me. I’m fully aware that phone sex is quite often an impulse kind of thing! So I know that to lots of guys, scheduling seems pretty crazy and a lot of work. So if you’re of that school of thought, you should probably stop reading and move on now! *Laughs* If you’re still not scared off though? Keep reading.

Anyway. So I realized the other day that I’ve spent so many years “training” my favorite guys to only look for me on certain days, and at certain times, that my days (like my actual daytimes) are pretty open. Every night of the week, with the exception of every other Saturday, is always, without exception, completely booked solid. But my daytimes, from say 2PM EST until 6 or 7PM EST, are free. Yeah, yeah, I’m supposed to be using that time to work on my million and one websites, and my podcast, and my usual web chores. But quite often I don’t feel like doing that! Lol…. So most often, I end up spending my days doing social stuff with my friends, reading my Kindle, or shopping-which I do WAY too much of!

So I’ve decided that I’m going to open up my days for one or possibly two guys. Well, some of my days. Monday, Thursday, Friday, and Saturday, to be exact. Now as I said, there are some requirements! But in the grand scheme of things, nothing too specific! I’ll explain.

1. Scheduling is a MUST! I don’t do random, spur of the moment calls unless I’m super, super horny or it’s 6am and I just happen to still be awake! Lol… I just need 24 hour notice to schedule a call. You can schedule up to a week in advance, but nothing farther out than that because appointments can be hard to remember with that much wait time.
2. GFE phone sex and Confession phone sex calls are my favorites, but I don’t restrict myself to any specific type of call. As long as you can be vocal! Tell me what you like and let me know that you’re enjoying it while we play, and we’ll be perfect! Some of my other favorites, in case you haven’t read my Types of Calls page yet…. Roleplay, Barely Legal, Sensual Domme, CUCKOLDING!! Financial domme and blackmail are fun as well… Just don’t ever, ever want me to be submissive, and I promise I’ll get off on it!

See? Pretty simple, huh? I know, this post started out sounding like I required a background check and references, lol… But I’m really not that strict! I just like to be clear about the above so there are no suprises-for either of us! *Smiles* Other random stuff… Please be interesting! Phone sex, for me, is about the cerebral play, the back and forth, the shift of power. That’s what makes my pussy wet! If you sit there like a rock and expect me to be a phone sex robot, I’m not having fun. Lol… Also, I don’t have a minimum call length (outside of the 10 minute minimum imposed by my payment processor), but it’s best to set aside at least a half hour to play with me. I enjoy getting to know you AND getting off with you! Which can be hard to do properly in 10 minutes sometimes…

And-at least about that stuff-is about it! So if you’ve been curious… About me, about what it would be like to cum with me, about how it feels to have my complete attention and be able to play with me whenever you want… Drop me an email using the contact form above. Tell me who you are and what kinds of calls you like. Fetishes, if you have any. And of course, what time you were thinking for an appointment. Like I said, I know that all this scheduling can seem like a lot when you’re used to being able to just “dial and cum”! But I promise, I’m totally worth it! And although I know, if you’re a certain type of fun, sexual, intelligent, and open type of guy, that I could be the perfect girl for you? I may not be. But FYI: My regular callers stay with me for YEARS, not just days. I’m that good. (And so modest, right? *Laughs*) Either way, you’ll never know what you could have had unless you give it a shot.

Anyway, moving on… I don’t want to dilute this post with my usual daily life ramblings, so I’ll keep this short. First: I got a new puppy!! He’s a Morkie (Maltese + Yorkie), his name is Alfonse, and he’s the cutest little ball of golden fur you’ve ever seen!! He’s my baby, I adore him, but I’ve been running on just a few hours sleep since I brought him home on Wednesday cause of all the trips outside! *Pouts* It’s a lot to deal with but I’m glad I got him. Second: WOW, have I been busy with calls this past week! Between My Sweetheart Gun, Pussy Boy, and Money Pet P, my nights have been completely filled and SO much fun! Not to mention all the yummy cash treats and gift cards! So I’ve been spoiled rotten and of course, loving it! (Thanks so much to all three of you-it’s been Christmas in April around here! *Laughs* You’re very good to me, pets. )

Last, for the time being, I’m completely booked through next Wednesday night. (I know! Told you I’ve been busy! Lol…) Aside from my new daytime availability though, I’m accepting appointments for next Thursday. So definitely drop me a line if you think you’ll feel like playing! And really-please do! I’ve been doing so much financial domme and cuckoldig lately, I’m not cumming nearly enough! *Blushes* The last time I did, it had been so long that… Well, in the interests of not embarrassing the hell out of myself with graphic details, let’s just say I had to stay up 2 hours after cause I had laundry to do. Umm, all of my bedding, actually. *Blushes Harder* So yeah… Some straight up, yummy, orgasm at the end of the call phone sex will be fun.

That’s it for now. Going to grab some lunch, wake up Alfonse and go for a little walk. AGAIN. Lol… Look for me next week.

PS I almost forgot to remind you! Just in case my scheduling and preferences and limited availabilty (blah blah blah, lol) is really too much for you to deal with? You can always call and play with one of my HOT sexy girlfriends, just by dialing my number above. 1 888 70 KYLIE. And in case you still need more variety, check out Young Sluts 4 Phone. Yummy hot teen sluts as low as 99 cents per minute! Bye again!

When I’m having fun. And I have been having fun lately! Probably a little too much, lol… The crazy weekend I wrote about below was just as crazy as I expected it to be. Mom was here-it was lots of fun but extremely annoying! I don’t know, I’ve always been so happy and excited to see her, but I think I may be growing up a little? Meaning, I feel like when she’s here it’s a constant bother! Like, I don’t need someone to tell me how to drive and what shoes to wear and when I should wake up! *Laughs* It’s even crazier because I know she’s always been like this, but it’s only recently that it’s starting to bother me. There’s always the upside though-which is that she cooks like a maniac and fills up my fridge and freezer with groceries! Lol… She’s been gone for a while now and the first time I’ve had to cook anything was last night.

I also went to see “Wicked, which was as amazing as I’d hoped it would be! With a couple small exceptions. First, I was up till 6am the night before, talking to Pussy Boy… And since my BFF and Gusband were coming over at 1 to start my “hair creation”, lol… I was exhausted! I was literally falling asleep throughout the whole first act. *Frowns* (Don’t worry- I’ve read the book and owned the soundtrack for years so I knew the story. AND I made Pussy Boy pay *dearly* to recompense! *Laughs*)

Second, I wore the most impossible stiletto heels to the show, assuming we’d valet or I’d get dropped off at the door. Of course we got there too late to do either of the above, so I had to walk…oh… I’m thinking just over half a mile in my adorable heels. Didn’t seem like a big deal at the time, but as the days passed… Shopping for 6 hours with my Mom, walking at the beach with her… I started to notice that there was definitely a problem! To make a long story short: excruciating pain! Done the xray thing and the doctor visits since~apparently I have stretched tendons and a bone spur and a pretty bad sprain. Some of this will take surgery to correct~and I am NOT ready to have another surgery! So they’re going to do some laser treatments to erode the sharp edges and reduce inflammation…blah, blah, blah…. Lol.

Suffice it to say, I’ve been a (albeit, a super sexy, lol) invalid for the past week or so. *Sighs* Lots of pain meds, lots of lying around, and lots of my Boys and my Benefactor waiting on me hand and foot. Which wouldn’t be so bad, except for the fact that every time I do have to go out? I have to wear-wait for it- FLAT. SHOES. Oh, the horrors!! Lol…. I’m joking here, but it really is unbearable. Plus, no shopping. *Sobs* None! Well….a little online shopping. *Giggles* But it’s not the same~you know about my addiction. So yeah…it hasn’t been so great.

And you’d think I’d be taking all this downtime to catch up on my web chores and take some extra calls, right? I wish! (Although I am getting some stuff done this morning-can you believe I’m blogging and it’s not even Noon? *Smiles*) There are so many fun books to read and TV to catch up on and sleep to have! Lol… I’ve been a total lazy daisy. And while I do feel a little guilty about it at times, it’s just the way it is. *Sighs*

Of course, I have taken calls from a few guys…. But Pussy Boy, Money Pet P, and my sweet subbie James have been monopolizing all my free time and spoiling me rotten….lol. I’ve snuck in a few extra days of availability though-and I plan to keep doing that when possible like I mentioned in my last post. I don’t exactly send out a memo when I do this, though! So if you always want to know when I’m taking calls, make sure to check my Twitter feed daily! I’m a bit of a Twitter addict lately, since Gun bought me my awesome new Ipod…so definitely follow me if you aren’t yet.

And I guess that’s about it! I just wanted to write a quick note because (as usual) it’s been so long. I”ll be taking calls for a bit tonight, but I have appointments all night long so I’m pretty booked solid. Same goes for Saturday. Still, feel free to email via my contact form if you’d like to set something up. Since I’ve been so busy lately, I may even make myself available on Sunday this week! We’ll see….

Going to soak in a looong, yummy bubble bath, have a nap, and hopefully get to a podcast later. Bye for now!

Lately, I find myself in an interesting dilemma. As I transition further away from Niteflirt, I finally have all of this free time! Free time that I’ve been wanting for SO long, free time that I always said I would spend finishing up all the web projects that I could never get to before…. Well, my web projects, along with a million other new ideas that have been rattling around in my head! (Those of you who know me, know that I always have at least fifty bajillion new “plans” in mind! New extensions of my phone sex empire…*evil laughs*…)

Plus, I have this new site almost finished~and it’s coming along quite nicely, don’t you think? So I have this new site, this awesome new outlet for all my sexy creativity, and on this site (unlike most of my other ones) I have absolutely NO restrictions on what I can say! No rules about who I can and can’t link to. No more herculean efforts to keep myself crammed into my old barely legal nympho fantasy “box”, if you will. Of course, I created that box myself back when I started on Niteflirt in 2005, but as time has passed, and I’ve gotten a little more diverse in my sexual appetites… Well? It was getting harder and harder to keep myself stuffed inside it. This isn’t to say that I don’t still enjoy my old favorite barely legal fantasies. Quite the contrary! Honestly, I think I’ll always adore them…and of course my sweet lil young voice will always (I hope!) be particularly suited to them. *Smiles* I just like to be a little more…cerebral about them now. I like to think while I play. I like men who appreciate that that’s what I do, and do well. Understand? Good.

And wait, there’s more! Because I’m all on my own now, it’s SO much easier for my favorite guys (and my favorite kind of guys) to get ahold of me! I get to take calls at my own pace, which means I’m always horny! (For me, Niteflirt moves at a breakneck pace. Calls are always back to back, guys don’t always read my listings carefully so they don’t always know what I’m really into. So I get kind of stressed and I can’t always enjoy myself as much as I’d like.) Anyway, now I’m excited for every single solitary call! I’m still busy on the phone every night that I’m available (apologies to those of you who still haven’t been able to get through!) but every call is one of my favorite kind of call! Whether it’s gfe phone sex, or cuckolding, or sexy confessions, or no taboo roleplay… And especially my tease and denial calls! T&D is totally one of my new favorites! But I digress…

My point with all of the above was supposed to be that I feel, for the first time in a long time: Absolutely, totally, 100% free! And this freedom is a little strange for me, because until I reclaimed it, I honestly didn’t know how much I was missing it. But back to my dilemma~what to do with all this freedom? I know, it sounds crazy, but it’s so new and so different, it’s taking some serious getting used to! I find myself like a high school girl again- like, being a lil rebel and procrastinating even more than I used to! Almost like I feel like I’d better enjoy it while it lasts because it might be temporary? Lol… Which is crazy, so I’m working on it!

This week actually hasn’t been too bad. I haven’t been available quite as much as I’ve wanted to, but I’ve been taking calls most of my scheduled nights, and almost starting on time, even! Lol… But my Pussy Boy has been monopolizing me as usual, so between that and my recovery period from last weekend, my windows of availability have been pretty small. Speaking of last weekend, I ended up going to that party I mentioned. We got there at around 11pm Saturday, and we didn’t leave until after 4pm Sunday. I know, long night! But it was fun, and trippy (literally!) and pretty damn amazing, actually! I had…let’s call it an encounter…with the first dominant man I’ve ever-yes, I said EVER-been attracted to. I’ve been debating on whether or not to go into details here, mostly because I don’t want to get any of you thinking that I’m welcoming/enjoying submissive calls again! *Smiles* So I’ll probably get into it in the podcast I’ve been procrastinating planning for the last week. You’ll have to keep checking The Phone Sex Radio for that in the next few days! (I’m sure I’ll post something here to let you know when it’s finally posted.)

Anyway. I’m going to close this now because it’s getting pretty late~and even night owls like moi get sleepy eventually. More so tonight because it’s Daylight Savings Time! Have you set your clocks back? It’s not fair! Usually I look forward to DST cause it means an extra hour of playtime. But tonight, I’ve been taking yummy phone sex calls all night and now I’m too sleepy to stay up later! *Pouts* Still horny but too sleepy. THAT’S a total paradox.

Oh, just a few quick things before I go! First, I added a “contact” page to my site. So if you have a question for me, or if you’re looking to set up an appointment, you can use that form to send me an email direct. That form forwards to my main email that I check several times daily, so I can usually respond really fast! Second, the call buttons on this site are now functioning properly. So if you want to call, you can click the button that says, “Available/Call Now” and set up a web call with me without needing to go through my dispatcher. Last, I’ll be off Sunday (tomorrow) as usual… I’m going to the beach with my BFF and getting my hair done after. Possibly doing an “XMen” marathon with the movies pussy boy gifted and the awesome surround sound system! We’ll see. So if you want to play with me, look for me Monday after 10pm EST. I may be busy with scheduled calls for the first part of the night, so make sure you check back here often and if you see me available, call me!

And now, I really am going to sleep! *Yawns* Bye for now!

I’m still settling in here, but how do you like the new site? Wait- I suppose I’m operating under the assumption that you’ve seen my old site, and just in case you haven’t yet… Well. If we haven’t yet had the pleasure of meeting, I hope you’ve taken a moment to browse around and get to know me a little better. Most everything you’d ever want to know about me is contained in these pages, with MUCH more information to come! On the other hand, if we have already spoken, then you already know and love me (*giggles*) and you’re probably surprised to see me here, and moving away from Niteflirt.

So I’ll explain. As you may or may not know, Niteflirt has been having some technical difficulties lately. I won’t get into all of them here, suffice it to say that they’ve been a little…difficult…for me to deal with. At first, I thought it would be a temporary setback, and that within days, my usual routine of taking calls there would be back to normal. But as time passed, I started to realize a few things.

1. I’ve been wanting to go completely independent for quite some time! Niteflirt is an awesome platform, I’ll probably never disappear from there completely (hence, the links to “Kylie’s Websites” you see in the sidebar which are all Niteflirt based sites.) But it’s always been my plan to be my own boss and make my own rules. This downtime gave me the motivation I needed to achieve that goal.
2. For the past year and a half, I’ve really only been regularly available for a handful of my favorite dedicated callers. But taking calls on a huge platform was making it so that my favorite guys couldn’t always get through to me! Well, that and my limited schedule, but I digress. *Smiles* I know this may sound crazy to some of you, but I like keeping my circle of callers relatively small. I like being a little elusive, and being exclusive. If we’ve never played before, don’t worry! I always want to meet new guys, and make new favorites! Being completely independent will allow me to do all of that MUCH more easily!
3. Lastly, the phone sex experience that I provide is unique, and sometimes difficult to describe! I’m a total phone sex girlfriend, I’m sensually dominant, I’m into fetish and fem domme but I’m also a horny slut! I like details, I like intimacy, I actually love cumming on the phone! My point is, that it’s hard to prepackage who I am and what I do into a one page listing to attract the kind of guys I enjoy! I know that if you’ve found me here, and you decide to call and play with me, you know what I’m about and I’m exactly what you’re looking for! As opposed to hearing my voice on some 1 800 number and deciding that I’d sound really good gagging on your cock. Lol… I know, colorful example, but hopefully you get my point! *Laughs*

So. Now I’m here, and I’m loving my new little one girl service! I can do what I want, take calls when I want, and I can even talk about whatever I want! Yes, my sweets~unlike Niteflirt, my private line has NO restricted topics! We can play any kind of kinky games your dirty little mind can dream up! Sounds like fun, doesn’t it?

This site is still kind of under construction, so I’ll be adding more stuff soon! Just know that I’m around, I’m taking calls, and if you’ve missed me~feel free to call me here from now on! I’ll be adding availability buttons very soon so you’ll always know my status. And for the next few weeks, I’ll be available MUCH more often than my posted schedule to make sure that you’ll be able to find me whenever you’re looking.

It’s late now, and I’ve got to get back to taking calls so I’m going to close this now. Thanks for stopping by my bedroom… I look forward to playing with you very soon!



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