I’ve been pondering this post for a few months now, actually. Noticing the differences between what I am now and what I used to be. It’s kind of strange, actually. You wouldn’t think that there’s such a huge dichotomy between the two, since both are phone sex at the core, but there is. Not so much how I am-although my schedule and availability has certainly changed and gotten less spontaneous! More in how people react to/treat me. Now, I’m not saying I’d trade it! I *love* my new web girl status, and while I do miss Niteflirt sometimes, I’d never go back except for a brief visit. *Smiles* I just notice the differences, that’s all.
For example. When new guys find me now, they do so only from the web. My websites, my Twitter, my link exchanges. And as I’ve said before, I like this a LOT better, because it means that and guy thinking of calling me has actually read about me. As opposed to just hearing my sexy lil voice on an 800 number. *Laughs* I like to be pretty much an open book when it comes to my sites, and my Tweets, because what I do is the girlfirend experience. When you read about me, when you call me, you get the REAL me-not some made up persona. (Like Judge Judy always says, “If you tell the truth, you don’t have to have a good memory!” Lol…) So I share what I share because I honestly like doing it. I like for you to know me, because the reason why I do what I do is because I truly enjoy getting to know you.
But what I put out there is just that: What I choose to put out there. Now that I’m a bona fide web girl *winks*, with all of the above that comes along with it, I feel like people expect to know everything about me. They want to know details about things I’ve (purposefully) only hinted at. They want to ask me probing, personal questions-sometimes even before we’ve had the chance to speak! And I don’t know. I guess I find this…odd. It’s something that never happened on Niteflirt, in any event! Lol… What was on my blogs and my Niteflirt listings was IT! Other than the occasional question about a fetish or a roleplay, anything anyone wanted to ask was always asked during an actual call.
It’s not that I’m trying to say that I mind questions! Or emails, or @KylieCallMe’s on Twitter, lol… More that I feel like I put about 80% of myself out there, publicly, for the world to see! For my “inner circle” of regular callers, it’s more like 95%. FYI, My kind of openness is NOT the norm for phone sex girls! Still, I do it because that’s just who I am. The part that I mind, is feeling like it’s not okay for me to keep that last 20 (or 5, as the case may be) percent of myself, to myself. Wait, rephrase: Not that it’s not okay, more that MORE is wanted and expected.
So, my simple request: Try to remember that I’m a real person with a real life! I know it’s probably hard to believe, but if you knew me well, you’d know that I’m actually a pretty private person. I love sharing much of myself with you! But I also treasure and jealously guard the remainder for myself. And keeping it that way is pretty essential for me to keep enjoying what I do. And staying around for you to keep enjoying me. K? K. 
I never write posts like this, I feel so cuntish right now! Lol… Just know that if you think this post applies to you, it probably doesn’t. Just had to get it off my (sizable, sexy) chest.
I spent the last two days pretty sick and in bed, so I missed a couple of parties, a couple of phone calls, and countless web chores that I’m still catching up on! So I’m going to end this here. My week is pretty packed with appointments so far, but I do still have availability for this coming Friday and possibly Sunday! So email me using the contact form if you’d like to set something up. (If I didn’t scare you off, that is! Lol…) It’s off to bed with me. Promise I’ll write again soon.
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I think there are too many callers out there feel a sense of ownership when they pay for a call. But what really got is me that they want the impossible girl. They want a fantasy girl that is always the fantasy.
I had call a good numbers of PSO. I also had hired escorts from time to time. I had always been curious about the girls themselves and like to talk to them. Some of them will open up after a while. And one of the thing that keeps coming up is this. Some client want the girl to tell them all about their pirvate life but if the reality doesn’t match the image they get upset. The guys keep thinking that the girl must have lots of crazy kinky sexual things happening everyday. She is always craving sex. That is why they are in the sex industry.
The reality is that although most girls I know do enjoy sex. Their life is not a non stop porn movie. Most of them have pretty normal life. The hardest part for them usually is to keep a long term relationship after they let someone know about their work. (And I think it is a real job and not an easy one at that) They like movies music books based on their interest. They have family that are a little nuts just like the rest of us. There are quiet time when they want to relax. So it is not super exciting all the time.
I think guys out there need to understand that the girls are just that. A women. Yes for a certain amount of money she will be your fantasy and if you are lucky your realationship will go beyond that. But the circumstances of your meeting means that there are always a part of her life you will not know. It is something that you need to respect. As the girl give so much of themselves away everytime you meet. That little bit of you own seld is very precious. The not knowing is the price you pay to be able to get to know more about her than anyone else. So if you are not willing to put up then just don’t go there. Also remember that you might not know about a “regular” girl as much as you think no matter how long you have known each other.
I see Kylie as my GF. We share a lot. But I also understand and respect the 5% that she wants to keep. It is the same respect that I gave to anyone that I want to call a true friend.
And I just notice I am leaving a really long comment again. Sorry about that cause I know you are all here to read all about the most wonderful girl I know name Kylie
It’s difficult sometimes to tell where the ‘line’ is. It’s especially so in ongoing GFE relationships. That said, it’s up to the caller to exercise restraint. If he fails to do this, the woman on the other end WILL. To explore all she has to offer, you needent burden her with that restraint. Familiarity can breed a causalness that sometimes lacks tact. If the caller lacks this…it has the effect of showing disrespect…and THAT can seriously damage a relationship….of any type. GFE, familiy member, or old buddy. It’s important to be aware of the line and show respect. This is especially so for women.
The more time that’s been invested in such a relationship tends to move that line father and deeper. But it should be recognized that it still exists. What one person can “get away with” … others can’t. If you don’t know where the line is…let her tell you. If it FEELS too far…it probably IS. The boundaries for sexual expression are limitless, but the boundaries of respect and privacy is what ALLOWS for all the yumminess.
I can empathize with this post. No one likes to give leeway, then see it taken advantage of.
I *adore* it when my favorite guys not only read my blog, but empathize AND comment! Really makes me smile.
Anyway, I like that both of you understood what I was trying to say. After writing the above, I started to think that people reading who don’t already know me well could take it the wrong way. So a little “back up” never hurts! *Laughs*
My point was and is, just that there is a line. When you know me well, it’s a pretty gray one! Lol… Still, it exists. My favorite guys-existing AND future! Are guys who understand that. I feel bad sometimes because the list of things that make me “not your average phone sex girl” keeps getting longer and longer! Lol… But I’m guessing that if you’re interested in ME, the last thing you’d ever want your phone sex girl to be is average!
Thanks again, Gun & Pussy Boy. I’ll definitely be smiling as I drift off to sleep…
xoxo, Kylie